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Dot High Steed
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Sunday, December 31 2023

 

 

 

ONE ON ONE WITH DOT

 

Happy New Year! Your Best is Yet to Come!

 

Written Goals in Six Easy Steps

 

Research has revealed that people have more difficulty setting goals than they do accomplishing them once they are set. The hardest part is sitting down and actually thinking about what you want to do with your life. The fact is, many of us have difficulty with finding time just for thinking and planning our lives. A start is to assess where you are, assess your abilities and talents, where you want to go and why you want to go there. To get where you want to go you need a map, a plan! I cannot imagine anyone planning a trip to a distant location, where they have never traveled; without a map! The same holds true for achieving life goals, you need a written plan to navigate to your desired destinations. 

            Goals are not just for professional people, but for everyone who dares to dream of a better life. At the start of new year, I want to encourage those of you who do not set goals, make this your year to do so, and write them down.  A written plan is crucial to achieving your Big dreams of starting or expanding a business, starting or finishing school, becoming financial free, losing unwanted pounds, becoming healthier and fit or but not least, to become a better person!

 

Here are 6 easy steps to achieving your goals:

  1. Visualize the end from the beginning. In other words, plan the end before you start. Stephen Covey states:” Begin with the end in mind”.A successful weight loss tip I have personally used to lose pounds and recommend to my clients, is to purchase the smaller size dress or pants they desire to wear (the smaller size may be in your closet), place them where they can be seen each morning. This technique works in conjunction with following a fitness routine and healthy eating plans.
  2. Goals should be SMART: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Time-bound. An example of a SMART goal: I will lose 20 pounds of body fat, not muscles, by July 1, 2024. This will be accomplished by incorporating exercise and following a healthy eating plan. Not dieting! Diets do not work! 
  3. Plan and write goals in 6 areas of life: Spiritual, Relationships, Financial and Career, Physical and Health, Social and Cultural, Mental and Educational. Setting goals in each area will ensure a more balanced life. 
  4.  Write your goals in the positive instead of the negative. The more positive the goal the more positive the results. Example: (Negative) I will not continue to drink 4 soft drinks per day. (Positive) I will reduce my soda intake to 1 per day starting January 2nd.
  5. Write down your goals, this is the most important step. Written goals create the roadmap to your success. Don’t just write them down and tuck them away. Your goals should be reviewed frequently. The more focused you are on your written goals, the more likely you are to accomplish them. The Bible says” Write the vision; make it plain on tablets, so he may run who reads it”.
  6. Your goals can be short term or long term. A short-term goal is a goal you can achieve in 12 months or less. A long-term goal is something you will target to complete in more than 12 months. Remember, to Dream Big! Shoot for the Stars!

 

A favorite Bible verse of mine is, “Man plans his ways, but God does the execution”.  Note: Man must plan! Your plans should be well thought out and the next step is to write them down. 

 

Your Best is Yet to Come!

 

To Your Health and Happiness in the New Year! 

 

 

Dot may be reached at: 

oneononewdot@yahoo.com 

https://www.successunlimitedwdot.com  

https://www.facebook.com/success2050

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Friday, July 21 2023

 

Fight the Good Fight of Faith for Your Life!

 

A while ago, in a phone conversation with one of my cousins who lives in Georgia; she told me of a comment  that my Mom had made about me in reference to my commitment to maintain good health and wellbeing. The conversation went somewhat like this… my cousin speaking to mom, “Aunt Nunnie, Jean (that’s my middle name) sho do look good for her age”.  Mom responding”, “You know she is not going down without a fight”. When my counsin repeated this conversation to me, something went off in me like a light bulb! I was inspired because it’s refreshing to hear how others perceive you, especially someone like my mom who was a  great “General of life”! She earned this title by gathering 86 years of wisdom, fighting the good fight of Faith, for herself, her family and many others who were blessed to know her.

 

It’s now clearer to me that we must fight for what is important and significant to us during this journey called life. I shared the above life experience, not to bring glory to myself, but to inspire and spur us on to continue to fight the good fight of Faith. Without faith it's impossible to please God. And He is a rewarder to those who diligently seek Him.

 

You may have heard this comment, “Anything worth having in life is worth fighting for”. Before proceeding, I will define “fighting”. The “fighting” I am referring to is not malicious or harmful. I am not talking about pulling out weapons, or using harsh words, what I am talking about is having a “bulldog tenacity” to win at those things that are important to you in life by trusting the Lord. "Not by might, nor by powerbut by my Spirit, says the Lord Almighty—you will succeed because of my Spirit".

 

Here are some wisdom steps for fighting the good fight for your life:

  1. Fight for good health. With the multitude of information out there on how to be healthy and fit, can be overwhelming.  I offer this recommendation:                    Focus on the total you, being spirit, mind and body. Optimum health is achieved with a balanced approach to health. Feed your spirit with the Word of God. Feed your mind with good thoughts, avoid negative thoughts and negative people.  Feed your body with good natural food and some form of frequent exercise.                   The biggest battle we fight is between our ears. Many have lost the battle of a healthy, vibrant life by negative and impure thoughts. The Bible states: “For as a man thinks in his heart so is he”.   We must train our brains to think good thoughts. A scripture reference for good thoughts… “Finally brothers and sisters whatever is true, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, it anything is excellent and praiseworthy think about such things.” 
  2. Fight for love ones. As a wife, mother and a grandmother, I recognize that I must be able and willing to fight for my family. I pray daily for them for to use godly wisdom and for their protection. I am ready to go to battle for them and with them, when the need arises. By letting our love ones know that we love them, even if they do not reciprocate is a power weapon!  Love conquers all. 
  3. Fight for Freedom. Only you can fight for the life you imagine for yourself. Do not let anyone hold you back, put you in a corner or tell you that you can’t have the life you desire. Your freedom is the most basic right you have and refusing to fight for it is like dying before your heart stop beating. Never give up your right to freedom, which is your right to be the best you! You are as free as you fight with faith to be. To quote our United States Constitution, “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness”. Who the “Son” Jesus set free is free indeed!

 

 

                  To Your Health and Happiness,

 

 

 

 

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Monday, July 03 2023

Fight for Your Life!

 

A while ago, in a phone conversation with one of my relative who lives in Georgia, she told me of a comment that my Mom had made about me in reference to my commitment to maintain good health and wellbeing. The conversation went somewhat like this… my relative speaking to mom, “Aunt Nunnie, Jean (that’s my middle name) sho do look good for her age”.  Mom responding”, “You know she is not going down without a fight”. When my relative repeated this conversation to me, something went off in me like a light bulb! I was inspired because it’s refreshing to hear how others perceive you, especially someone like my mom who was a “General of life”. She earned this title by gathering 86 years of wisdom nuggets, fighting the good fight of faith, for herself and for her family. This wisdom life nugget is worth repeating.

 

It’s now clearer to me that we must fight for what is important and significant to us during this journey called life. I shared the above life experience, not to bring glory to myself, but to inspire and spur us on to continue to fight for our life! 

 

You may have heard this comment, “Anything worth having in life is worth fighting for”. Before proceeding further, I will define “fighting”. The “fighting” I am referring to is not malicious or harmful. I am not talking about pulling out weapons, or using harsh words, what I am talking about is having a “bulldog tenacity” to win at those things that are important to in life.

 

Here are some wisdom nuggets for fighting the good fight for your life:

 

  1. Fight for good health. With the multitude of information out there on how to be healthy and fit, can be overwhelming.  I offer these recommendations:

Focus on the total you, being spirit, mind and body. Optimum health is achieved with a balanced approach. Feed your spirit with the Word of God. Feed the mind with good thoughts avoid negative thought and negative people.

Feed your body with good natural food and some form of frequent exercise.

The biggest battle we fight is between our ears. Many have lost the battle of a healthy, vibrant life by negative and impure thoughts. The Bible states: “For as he thinks in his heart so is he”.  We must train our brain to think good thoughts. A scripture reference for good thoughts… “finally brothers and sisters whatever is true, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, it anything is excellent and praiseworthy think about such things.” 

 

  1. Fight for love ones. As a wife, mother and a grandmother, I recognize that I must be able and willing to fight for my family. I pray for my love ones and continually fight the good fight of faith. I am ready to go to battle for them and with them, when the need arises. A favorite biblical quote, “One can put a thousand to flight, two can put ten thousand to flight”. Many times, it’s letting our love ones know that we love them, even if they do not reciprocate. Love conquers all. 

 

  1. Fight for Freedom. Only you can fight for the life you imagined for yourself. Do not let anyone hold you back, put you in a corner or tell you that you can’t have the life you desire. Your freedom is the most basic right you have and refusing to fight for it is like dying before your heart stop beating. Never give up your right to freedom, which is your right to be the best you! You are as free as you fight to be. To quote our United States Constitution, “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness”. Who the “Son” Jesus set free is free indeed!

 

 

 

 

Have a Safe and Happy July 4th!

 

To Your Health and Happiness,

 

 

Dot High-Steed is a Life Coach, who has over 30 years of experience in health/wellness, ministry, business and education. 

 

Dot may be reached at:  

oneononewdot@yahoo.com

https://www.successunlimitedwdot.com  

https://www.facebook.com/success2050

 

 

 

 

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Saturday, April 15 2023

 

 

Take Care of Yourself        Part I of II

In todays, fast paced, hustle, bustle society; we have become programmed to moving at break-neck speed in order to accomplish life goals and to complete that never ending daily to-do-list. Now, I am not saying that goal setting and the to-do-list are not important, but they both need to include sufficient time for you to take care of you. Recently, I reflected on why I embarked on this journey of wellness and wholeness; and simply it was to gain knowledge on how I could better take better care of myself. My wellness journey evolved into a passion to impart knowledge to others on how to take care of themselves.

 

I have witnessed many people giving too much of their time and energy to jobs/careers, their families, their political or social causes, their ministries, their businesses and lastly but not least; to technology, more specifically social media. The truth is, we cannot help or support anyone unless we are strong spiritually, physically and mentally. I would like to say it this way, “you cannot give what you do not have”.  In my humble opinion, the greatest calling in life is to help and serve others. I believe that’s why we were created, to be the hands, feet and voice of God. A couple of my favorite Bible scriptures related to serving others: “Forwe are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago”. “Love the Lord your God with all of your heart, with all of your soul, and love your neighbor as yourself”. Note: Love your neighbor as yourself. (Neighbor includes people close or distant to you), You must first love yourself before you can love others and care for others.

 

Remind yourself that you are fabulous. You are beautifully and wonderfully made. You are not a mistake! Don’t allow an unrealistic pursuit to be perfect discourage and exasperate you. Perfection should never be your goal. Focus on being the best you. We are all fallible, allow yourself to make mistakes and fall down sometimes, but quickly get back up. You are unique, do not compare yourself to others. Comparing yourself to others is a robber of your self-esteem.  If possible, avoid people who put you down because you are doing you. Each morning when you arise do so with a heart of gratitude.  Celebrate the amazing person you are!

 

To Your Health and Happiness!

Dot High-Steed is a Life Coach, who has over 30 years of experience in health/wellness, ministry, business and education. 

 

Dot may be reached at:  

oneononewdot@yahoo.com

https://www.successunlimitedwdot.com  

https://www.facebook.com/success2050

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Thursday, February 11 2021

 

 

What is Love?

 

Some years ago, a well-known singer titled a song, “What Does Love Have to Do with It?” The lyrics proceeds to say that love is just a secondhand emotion! This is the farthest from the truth. Love has everything to do with the state of our health and wellbeing. The acronym “ILL”, denotes I Lack Love.

 

 Many who are stricken with illness, emotionally and or physically, have allowed hatred, resentment and bitterness to erode their health. The body generates toxic hormones when the mind and spirit is held in a state of bitterness and resentment. When we make a conscious decision to forgive and love unconditionally, our spirit, mind and body is filled with joy, peace and love.

 

According to a growing body of scientific research love come with some solid health benefits:

 

Love makes you happyLove increases dopamine, the feel-good brain chemical associated with reward. Love is a mood intensifier, so people feel extremely positive and very appreciated. 

 

Love ease anxiety. Loneliness can hurt your health from increasing inflammation to activating pain centers. “The feeling of loneliness stimulates anxiety, cortisol and adrenaline levels rise when people feel insecure and threatened. Being in love and feeling close to another person can mitigate anxiety.

 

Love helps you live longerResearch has shown that married couples enjoy greater longevity than singles — making “’til death do us part” even more of a commitment. Studies suggest those long-life benefits are largely explained by consistent social and emotional support, better adherence to medical care and having a partner who can hold you accountable to healthy lifestyle behaviors and steer you away from bad ones. Married couples have been found to have lower rates of substance abuselower blood pressure and less depression than single peers.

 

Love is a healer.   God is Love. The key to healing and wholeness comes from the One who created us. Without the presence of True Love (agape love), there’s a large void in a person’s life. I will refer to this void as a “God size hole”. Many people attempt to fill this “hole” with people, food, drugs, alcohol, material things, money, power or fame. My personal identity and relationship in Christ fills, the God size hole, I can truly say that there is no hatred in my heart! I love people unconditionally, the agape kind of love.

 

 Love is eloquently described and quoted by the great Apostle Paul: Love suffers long andis kind; Love does not envy; Love does not parade itself, Love is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, Love does not seek its own, Love is not provoked, Love thinks no evil; Lovedoes not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things Love never fails!
 

 

To Your Health and Happiness,

 

Dot High-Steed is a Life Coach, who has over 25 years of experience in health/wellness, business and education. 

 

Dot may be reached at: 

oneononewdot@yahoo.com 

https://www.successunlimitedwdot.com  

https://www.facebook.com/success2050

 

 

 


 

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Friday, January 22 2021

Speak to the MOUNTAIN!

 

In this life you will have problems, there is not a person on the planet that will not have challenges and problems to overcome. Our goal in life is not to avoid problems, unexpected or expected problems and challenges will happen. Our goal is to have the wisdom and knowledge on how to solve and or overcome our problems. Many times people spend useless time and effort talking about the problem (s). This can be in the form of complaining, gossiping, speaking fear, anger or doubt; which only compounds the situation.  The problem(s) will take on a life of its own and begin to dominate your thoughts, causing negative and destructive behaviors, such as overeating, depression, excessive alcohol use, drug use (legal and illegal).  

You may say, “Dot, you do not know the BIG problem I am dealing with, it seems like there is no end or no way out!”  “What can I do?”  I am glad you asked that question.  My answer …… SPEAK TO YOUR MOUNTAIN!Your mountain is any challenge or problem that is overwhelming, seems insurmountable. Your words are a powerful force, they can create and they can tear down. The Bible says “The power of life and death is in the tongue”. The tongue is like a rudder on a ship, it can direct you to achieve your dreams and life goals. If you say you can do it, you will, if you say you can’t, you will not.

This may seem over simplified, but in reality, what you say about your problems and what you believe, have more impact than what others say or believe concerning your situation. Say to the Mountain, “Move”! I am not saying that you should avoid seeking help from others, but ultimately you must believe in your God-given ability to overcome victoriously. It’s important to know that you can transform a seemingly impossible task or problem by speaking to it. You may say… “I will not be destroyed by this problem, I have the ability to overcome.”   

 Being a woman of faith, I speak to my problem (s), (Mountains), in this manner… “I Can Do All Things through Christ who strengthen me”. When challenged with a health concern… I speak, “I walk in Divine health and wholeness”. We are not to deny the fact that the symptoms are there, but deny its right to remain in your body. A favorite verse of mine:“Then Jesus told them, "I tell you the truth, if you have faith and don't doubt, you can do things like this and much more. You can even say to this mountain, 'May you be lifted up and thrown into the sea,' and it will happen”.

I will summarize with a reminder that we are spirit, soul and body. The soul (mind, will and emotions), if not kept in checked, can cause havoc to the body and weaken our spirits. We must speak to the MOUNTAIN, words of peace, calm, faith and rid our thoughts of doubt, fear and unbelief. It’s important first to rid your mind of negative thoughts, take every negative thought captive and cast it out. Thoughts are seeds, which become actions and actions create destiny. 

Say to the Mountain “Move”!

 

To Your Health and Happiness!

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Friday, January 15 2021

 

                                                                      Take Care of Yourself         Part II of II

 

Last week’s column highlighted the importance of Self-Care. I mentioned that caring for yourself does not negate our responsibility to serve and care for others. But you cannot help others if you are not “whole” yourself.  “Whole” refers to being strong physically, mentally and spiritually. 

Here are a few tips on how you can take care of you: 

  1. Exercise your body. A little exercise will go a long way to reducing stress. Even just a brisk walk in the morning will energize and motivate you for the day ahead. Set your alarm for a little earlier than usual and hit the pavement or the treadmill. Save time by preparing the night before. Lay out your exercise clothes so that you can get going with minimal preparation time.
  2. A brief morning meditation.  I personally use biblical mediations. Think about all the things you are grateful for and give yourself some positive encouragement. A favorite Bible verse of mine. “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you”.
  3. Keep a journal. Writing is a therapeutic activity. In just a few minutes, you can write down your thoughts, worries, gratitude, or whatever else comes to mind. Keep the journal near your bed and make a habit of writing a few paragraphs or even sentences each night before you go to sleep. 
  4. Read a book. Reading is a relaxing activity that helps us escape from the pressures of our lives and expands our intellectual abilities. 
  5. Call an old friend. Reconnect with someone you haven’t had time to talk to in a while. Busy lives get in the way of friendship. Friends become distant memories. In the social media age, people tend to keep track of friends through various social media sites, but rarely ever pick up the phone.
  6. Schedule time for yourself. When we fill out our calendars for the day, we usually don’t schedule in time for ourselves. Schedule time for some exercise, and quality time with family and friends.
  7. Unplug from technology. People tend to grab their phone first thing when waking up. Leave the electronics alone until you’ve given yourself time to prepare for the day. Make time for breakfast (the most important meal of the day).
  8. Prepare healthy meals at home. We can control the nutritional value of our meal if we prepare our meals. Frequent dining out is not always healthy, avoid the fast food trap.
  9. Get enough sleep. Sleep is not only good for the body, but it is also good for the mind. A well-rested body and mind can accomplish great things. 

    10.   Stay connected to others, especially your love ones. Social distancing does not mean    social disconnection!Make frequent contacts by phone, text, email, skype and   other technical modes or the old fashion; write a note and put it in the mail. Social connection is crucial to good mental health.

 

Remind yourself that you are fabulous, you are an amazing person! Take time each day to nurture and care for yourself. No one will take care of you like you. Do it for your body, mind and spirit!

 

To Your Health and Happiness,

 

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Thursday, December 24 2020

The True Reason for the Christmas Season

 

Christmas is a time for the celebration of the birth of Christ, “Christ-mas” is a two-part word; Christ (the Anointed One) and Mass(a service which is sometimes called Communion or Eucharist) as Christians we remember that Jesus came to earth died for us and then came back to life to save us. Billions of people celebrate Christmas around the world, the majority are people like myself, who celebrate for religious purpose. For others, the celebration is centered around commercialism. 

 

Gift giving is a big part of the Christmas season. Many people will spend large sum of money to buy gifts for family and friends. The commercialization of Christmas entices us to spend hundreds and thousands of dollars on gifts, some will spend money they do not have, in other words; incurring debt that could take years to pay off.  I encourage each of us to pause and reflect on the “true reason” for the season and on the truth behind gift giving.  The Gospels states that the Wise Men, who were distinguished, wealthy foreigners, visited the baby Jesus after his birth, bearing giftsof gold, frankincense and myrrh. As you open your beautiful wrapped presents this Christmas remember it all started with a celebration of Jesus birth!

 

The Creator of the Universe demonstrated His love for us by sending His only begotten Son 

in the form of a baby borne unto a Virgin, named Mary. The scriptures continue, “Whosoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have everlasting life”! What great love displayed by our Lord! This is the miracle of Christmas. 

 

As we safely gather with our families and friends during this Christmas, let’s us not forget the “true reason” for our celebrations.  God’s desire is that we will come to the full knowledge of His Divine purpose and accept His “Gift” and be eternally united to His family! The “Gift of Jesus” is the true reason for the season.

 

This has been a most challenging year with the pandemic, political and social unrest, loss of love one’s, loss of jobs and coupled with the increase in stress and anxiety. What better time to look to the Creator of the Universe for peace, love and good tidings.!

 

May His Face shine upon you and bring you peace and joy.

 

Have a Blessed Merry Christmas!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Sunday, December 13 2020
Wellness 2020

 

 

What is Wellness?

 

Wellness is to assume responsibility for the quality of your life. It begins with a conscious decision to shape a healthy lifestyle. Wellnessis the complete integration of body, mind and spirit---the realization that everything we do, think, feel and believe has an effect on our state of well-being. Wellnessis an alternative dependency on doctors, drugs, to complacency, to mediocrity and to self-pity, boredom and slothfulness.Wellnessis an Attitude.  

To best describe wellness, I will share a traumatic personal experience which occurred more than thirty years ago….

As a young adult, I worked as a shift supervisor for a major manufacturing corporation in Augusta, Georgia.  One evening while at work, I entered a storage room, which had a large wooden overhead door, it was 12-14 feet high and weighed 600 pounds. As I came under the door, that evening, the door mechanism broke and it came crashing down, full force on top of my head. You don’t have to be a scientist to calculate that the weight and force was enough to have killed me. It was a miracle that I survived.  After a brief stay in the hospital, doctors did not find any broken bones, but I was left with excruciating pain in my head and neck, along with shattered emotions (due to fear of not recovering).

 

Before the accident I was your typical couch potato. Exercise was the farthest thing from my mind even though I was overweight, I was not motivated to exercise. After the accident, I experienced chronic pain and had difficulty relaxing the muscles in my shoulders and neck.  For more than six months, I went from doctor to doctor in search of relief and a strong desire to return to “normal”. I was on my way up the corporate ladder. The fear of not reaching my career goals and being crippled for life intensified the physical and emotional pain. 

My friends said that I would never recover and that I should sue the company. There was clear negligence for failure to fix the overhead door. I later learned that key personnel knew the door was faulty prior to my accident. But my desire was not to sue the company, I only wanted be “well” and to get on with my life and career. I was not looking for a “free ride".

 

To help with the pain and anxiety, doctors prescribed various pain killers and antidepressant drugs. But my emotional state worsens; the root of the depression was fear of not recovering. The company provided the finest medical care, but I did not want to be dependent on prescription drugs for the rest of my life. I was determined to be drug free!

One day I went to visit a psychologist; I will refer to him as an “Angel” sent by God. This “Angel Doctor” told me that he jogged for relaxation. I looked at him in disbelief and asked “you do what to relax?” He described how exercise helps the body and mind relieve stress. Up to this point, I had associated exercise as hard work, certainly not therapeutic or fun. Well I was desperate to try something besides prescription drugs. I went out bought a pair of athletic shoes and began to walk. 

As I walked around my neighborhood, I began to not only feel better, I was having fun. A short time later, while walking, I met a friend who motivated me to begin jogging. Within five months I was completely free of prescription drug, started teaching aerobics classes and participating in 10k road races. The rest is history, I became “sold out” on the benefits of exercise as a means to heal, and become well.  Other benefits of my new healthy lifestyle included weight loss, improve attitude, and increased energy.

 Now that I looked back on this accident, it was indeed my wake-up call to my life mission; which is to educate, and inspire others to improve their health and well-being. Wellness is a focus on the whole person, spirit, mind and body! Stay tune next week for part II.

 

To Your Health and Happiness,

 

 

Dot High-Steed is a Life Coach, who has over 25 years of experience in health/wellness, ministry, business and education. 

 

Dot may be reached at:  

oneononewdot@yahoo.com

https://www.successunlimitedwdot.com  

https://www.facebook.com/success2050

 

 

 

 

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Friday, November 20 2020

To Everything There’s a Season 

 

We all experience change and transition in life. Sometimes life is exciting, dynamic, and we feel on top of the world. And then just as natural seasons changes, our world can be turned upside down in an instant!

Life changes and transitions can be tough. Life seems to operate in seasons. Some parts of life are like spring: new beginnings, a fresh start, a brand-new job, or a creative opportunity. Starting things always feels so exciting, so invigorating, and so hopeful. Summer is when the living seems easier. Relationships are thriving, work seems effortless, and the pleasant days are long. Autumn brings a cool, refreshing change, but always a reminder of days lost and the reminder of what lies ahead. 

Life changes makes us remember (and long for) the past; we leave friends for a new chapter, say goodbye to a loved one, or move for another opportunity. And then, as certain as ever, winter arrives. The cold, bitter harshness of a season that tests the fortitude of us all. It poses the question: how strong are you?

When life's winter seasons fall upon you—through the loss of a loved one, the end of a great chapter in your life, or the termination of something you couldn't imagine ending—many times, we are overcome with grief. How did this happen? How long will this endure? Will I survive? Am I strong enough?

Winter has a way of testing the resolve of people, rewarding those with grit and determination with the hope of spring. When you find yourself in life's winter moments, here are three things you can do during this season of life.

1. Be Intentional. Purposely set your mind to be positive. Tell yourself “this winter season will not define me; this too shall pass”. Spring is on its way!

2. Trust your own resolve. You're a lot stronger than you think. Remind yourself of how you overcame past obstacles and strive to be even stronger. 

3. Tough times do not last, tough people do. Tough situations can add to our story and build character. Remember to surround yourself with supportive relationships and take care of yourself.

4. Understand the time and season. There are some people who are in your life only for a season.   Trying to hold on to friendship past the season causes the relationship to sour. 

King Solomon of the Bible understood life seasons, he wrote:

 

To everything there is a season,

A time for every purpose under heaven:  A time to be born,

And a time to die; A time to plant,

And a time to pluck what is planted; A time to kill,

And a time to heal; A time to break down,

And a time to build up; A time to weep,

And a time to laugh; A time to mourn,

And a time to dance;

 A time to cast away stones, And a time to gather stones;

A time to embrace,

And a time to refrain from embracing; A time to gain,

And a time to lose; A time to keep,

And a time to throw away; A time to tear,

And a time to sew; A time to keepsilence,

And a time to speak; A time to love,

And a time to hate; A time of war,

And a time of peace.

 

Let the peace of the Lord rule in your heart.

 

To Your Health and Happiness1

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